Separating from a spouse, especially with children involved, is never easy. It will definitely take some time before everyone gets used to the fact. It is a new change for your children and definitely some blame game will happen at this moment. It would have been great if the two of you could sit down and explain to your kids that you cannot be happy together, and that there would be regular visitation. That would have been the matured thing to do, so that they have a prosperous childhood. Since your soon-to-be ex-husband isn’t complying with the situation, give them some time to adjust. Children are smart; they will realize that you are not the one keeping them apart from their father. Have them call their father and make them talk to him regularly. Anytime they want to meet him or go visit his place, let them do that. If your ex lives with the parents then leave your children there during weekends. And with time do explain it to them that you are not meant to be together and that everything will be fine. A 15-year-old might be hard to handle, with teenage hormones creating confusion. So be patient and give yourself and them some time.
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